United Spouses

Dear Lone Ranger,

Being in the same page in parenting is critical for a child’s security and sense of felt safety.  If you and your spouse are on different pages, engage a third party to assist you in working through the differences.  Watch connected parenting videos together, or meet with other adoptive parents who implement connected parenting so the techniques are modeled on a consistent basis. Don’t “nag” or “push”  – influence by practicing what you know to be effective.


For children and families,